{"id":25,"date":"2005-05-24T13:32:00","date_gmt":"2005-05-24T13:32:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brianmashburn.net\/?p=25"},"modified":"2005-05-24T13:32:00","modified_gmt":"2005-05-24T13:32:00","slug":"the-retreat-chronicles-iii-guaranteeing-true-community","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/?p=25","title":{"rendered":"The Retreat Chronicles III &#8211; Guaranteeing True Community"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2><font size=3>&#8220;Now  that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.&#8221; &#8212; Jesus, to  his followers<br \/><\/font><\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>We&#8217;re not stupid. We  know the right, churchy answers. Shoot, we&#8217;re the ones teaching them to everyone  we come across. This is a &#8220;ministry staff&#8221; retreat, for Pete&#8217;s sake. We&#8217;ve  committed our lives to dishing out Jesus to everyone we know. We know what Jesus  told his followers&#8230;<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial  size=2><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>To give up  everything, all attachments to this world, and attach to  him.<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>To die to ourselves,  letting our lives be at his disposal for others.<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>To love each other  in a way that it is humanly impossible, so that the world knows that Jesus is  God&#8217;s son.<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial  size=2><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>But we were (once  again) on the longest journey of any human being&#8217;s life&#8230;the remarkably  difficult and adventurous 12 inch journey from &#8220;knowing&#8221; in our heads to  &#8220;living&#8221; from our hearts.<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial  size=2><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>Back at Jesus&#8217;  &#8220;ministry staff&#8221; retreat in John 13, Jesus had just washed his followers feet  and reiterated that they should love each other in the same extreme, unpopular,  detail-oriented, inconvenient way that he has loved them&#8230;and that it&#8217;s  mandatory if they want to be blessed.<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial  size=2><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>We&#8217;re not stupid. We  know this story. We know this simple teaching. But here we are at our &#8220;ministry  retreat&#8221; with Jesus looking at each other, wondering what the next step is. How  do we love each other, give ourselves to each other, care for each other in such  a way as to be a real, true blessing&#8230;and so receive one.<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial  size=2><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>We needed Jesus in  the room, coaching us. And we had him, in all of us. We started with prayer,  pairing up with our spouses and praying with eyes wide open, heads up, looking  around the room at each other, we all asked God, &#8220;Lord, let us give ourselves to  these people.&#8221; It was cool. <\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial  size=2><\/font><\/span>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><span class=078301020-21052005><font face=Arial size=2>My wife and I took  turns praying as we went around the room&#8230;&#8221;Lord, give us to Bruce and  Edie&#8230;bless Bob and Caron through us&#8230;bless Doyle and Christy&#8217;s marriage by  sharing ours with them&#8230;let us be weak, God, so that Jesus can be strong  to&nbsp;Landon and Kristen through us&#8230;give us to Craig and Vicky&#8230;give us to  Kyle and Jen&#8230;give us to Jim&#8230;give us to Brad and Karen&#8230;give us to Phil and  Kim&#8230;&#8221; and on and on we went. 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