{"id":137,"date":"2008-02-13T16:17:00","date_gmt":"2008-02-13T16:17:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/brianmashburn.net\/?p=137"},"modified":"2008-02-13T16:17:00","modified_gmt":"2008-02-13T16:17:00","slug":"the-successful-ministers-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/?p=137","title":{"rendered":"The successful minister&#8217;s life"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><font face=Arial><em><span class=258370515-13022008>&#8220;<\/span>I am very clear  about&nbsp;something very important right now, in this moment.&nbsp;  <strong>When we are aware<\/strong> of the many crises that befall and befuddle  us daily and everywhere as human beings, <strong>we actually become better human  beings<\/strong> &#8211; more caring, more compassionate, more focused,  more&nbsp;purposeful, and as a result more fulfilled.&nbsp; <strong>When we  relax and go oblivious, we become&nbsp;&#8220;fat, dumb, and happy,&#8221; and totally  worthless to ourselves and others, and we appreciate nothing.<\/strong>&nbsp; I  think there&#8217;s a clue here to the answer to the question, &#8220;Why look for the death  and suffering?&#8221;, and it is to find and celebrate life as the fragile and  unspeakably beautiful gift that it is, that I&#8217;m totally aware of today, and  we&#8217;ll see what I notice tomorrow.<\/em><span class=258370515-13022008><em>&#8220;<\/em>  &#8211; Jim Spivey<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial><span class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial><span class=258370515-13022008><em>&#8220;The people  who&nbsp;opposed Jesus weren&#8217;t content to only attack&nbsp;the practice of his  faith, but the people with whom he practiced them.&nbsp;&#8216;Here is a friend of tax  collectors and sinners,&#8221; they said, and &#8216;why does your teacher eat with tax  collectors and sinners,&#8217; they questioned.&nbsp; Because,&#8217; Jesus replied, &#8216;I  haven&#8217;t come to&nbsp;call the righteous, but sinners.'&#8221; &#8211;<\/em> A thought  inspired by a book about Lent that my friend Bro. Marcus sent me for my  birthday&nbsp;<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial><span class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>There are two lives  beckoning me as a &#8220;minister&#8221;. <\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span  class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>One life I will  title the <strong>&#8220;Successful Minister&#8217;s Life&#8221;:<\/strong> This life asks me to  invest in becoming a better and better public speaker, it invites me to  teaching&nbsp;assignments that would require more time&nbsp;in my office with  my&nbsp;head buried in books,&nbsp;it wants me to travel far and wide for  speaking engagements at very worthwhile events, and it suggests that on top of  that, that I would do well to fit in the writing of books. Each of&nbsp;these  things&nbsp;have their own corresponding opportunities for the growth of how  many I can influence for Christ, financial rewards with which to bless my family  and give to the Kingdom&#8217;s cause,&nbsp;and life-long learning in the doing of  good things. <\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font><font  face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>&nbsp;I&#8217;m not  judging those who live it, nor am I stating that this life doesn&#8217;t make a  God-honest, life-changing impact on people, but I can honestly say that  immersing myself into this life would for me be a treacherous act towards  Christ, a betrayal of my family and my&nbsp;message, and the death of  me.<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span  class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>The other life I  will title the <strong>&#8220;successful minister&#8217;s life&#8221;  <\/strong>(<\/span><\/font><font face=Arial size=2><span  class=258370515-13022008>Sorry, I couldn&#8217;t come&nbsp;up with anything better  than the same name&nbsp;with&nbsp;lower-case letters&#8230;but I think this  adequately draws a visual picture of how easily&nbsp;the&nbsp;first  could&nbsp;overcome&nbsp;my practice of the&nbsp;second): This life asks me to  invest in becoming a deeper and deeper lover of those around me, it invites me  to people assignments that would require more time out of my office with my  heart buried in relationships, it wants me to travel far and wide into the  &#8220;heart engagements&#8221;&nbsp;with the&nbsp;hurts of those living right around me,  and it suggests that on top of that, that I would do well to fit all of this in  just as soon as I&#8217;m faithful in the daily practice of it all with my family.  Each of these things have&nbsp;their own corresponding opportunities for the  growth of how <em>deeply<\/em> I can influence someone for Christ, financial  <em>faith<\/em> with which to bless my family and give the to the Kingdom&#8217;s  cause, and life-long learning in the doing of the <em>best<\/em>  things.<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span  class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>I&#8217;m not saying that  I have it perfectly nailed, or that this life doesn&#8217;t sometimes include some of  the practices of the former life, but I can honestly say that immersing myself  into this life&nbsp;is for me faithfulness towards Christ, an honoring of my  family and my message, and the death of me.<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span  class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>The former life,  would cost me less and stroke my ego more, two things that I&#8217;ve learned I am  inclined towards, but would leave me &#8220;fat, dumb, and happy.&#8221; It would leave me  living defensively, managing my life, and caring way too much about whether  other people &#8220;are changing&#8221; or not in order for me to pretend I was  successful.<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span  class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>The latter life,  costs me <em>everything<\/em> (which turns out to be less), and strokes my  <em>passion<\/em> more (which turns out be a higher trip than my ego has ever  provided), two things that I&#8217;ve also learned that I am inclined  towards,&nbsp;but&nbsp;this life leaves me <em>&#8220;joyful, peaceful, and  loving&#8221;<\/em>, and hanging out with people the people that Jesus said he has come  to call (of which, I am one).<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span  class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font><font  face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font><font face=Arial  size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>I&#8217;m not pretending that my choices are as  black and white as all this. I actually&nbsp;<em>am<\/em> investing in becoming a  better and better public speaker, and taking teaching assignments that put me in  books in my office, and I&#8217;m going to LA in two weeks to a speaking engagement,  and this blog, of course,&nbsp;is a form of my fitting in the &#8220;writing of  books&#8221;. But I choose not to let these things use, castrate, diminish, overwhelm,  or distract me from my life and&nbsp;plug me into a pre-defined &#8220;ministry  matrix&#8221; from which I would need to be saved all over again.&nbsp;Instead, I use  <em>them<\/em>, ever-so-cautiously, to deliver the best possible life to and from  my heart&#8230;.the life of Christ.<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span  class=258370515-13022008><\/span><\/font>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div><font face=Arial size=2><span class=258370515-13022008>I love you all for  your unique and varied contribution to it&#8230;you are highly prized and  valued.<\/span><\/font><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;I am very clear about&nbsp;something very important right now, in this moment.&nbsp; When we are aware of the many crises that befall and befuddle us daily and everywhere as human beings, we actually become better human beings &#8211; more caring, more compassionate, more focused, more&nbsp;purposeful, and as a result more fulfilled.&nbsp; When we relax and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_s2mail":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-137","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pO6nf-2d","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=137"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/137\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=137"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=137"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.brianmashburn.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=137"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}